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To make the task of selecting a caterer for your big day a little less overwhelming, we talked with bling bling dumpling, a Los Angeles-based catering company, to grab their expert advice! 

Read more to learn the right time to book, common mistakes couples make, and essential questions to ask your potential caterer.

As a wedding planner, I often get asked whether a first look is the right choice for a couple's big day. The truth is, the decision ultimately depends on your personal preferences, expectations, and day-of logistics. 

In this post, we'll explore some pros and cons of the first look, as well as some alternative options, to help you make an informed decision that aligns with your wedding style and vision.

Amid the hustle and bustle of wedding planning, room blocks are often overlooked and left until the last minute. And while room blocks may not be the most exciting decision to make in the grand scheme of your big day, it is necessary to determine. This blog post will answer some key questions: What are the risks and benefits? Is it worth it? What is the process for booking?  

There are numerous pros and cons, so we'll help you determine if a room block is for you! 

You painstakingly created your perfect guest list. Meticulously considered who should make the cut. Felt excited for those invited to celebrate your wedding but guilty for those that were not. 

You've possibly dealt with your family trying to include that neighbor you haven't seen in 10 years. Or maybe you've had an awkward conversation with your friend about the plus one she wants to bring (you know, that guy you've never met). Or perhaps you left out that coworker you rarely talk to but invited the coworker, the one you constantly go to lunch and happy hour with. 

And now, after all that, you have more than enough room on the invite list because there are more R.S.V.P. regrets than you anticipated. What. The. F*&k. 

You're tired, irritated, and bummed. How can this be? This is your wedding! Doesn't everyone realize how important this day is to you and your fiancé?! These feelings are entirely normal. But how do you move past the negative emotions of rejection and resentment? 

Here are some strategies to help you cope with the R.S.V.P. blues and make the most of your wedding celebration.